For as long as I can remember I was a people pleaser. I feared conflict. I feared failure. And I feared rejection. I craved to be in control and avoided uncertainty as much as humanly possible.
And so In order to stay safe… In order to be well liked… In order not to disappoint… I stayed in my lane. I followed the “right” and safe path. I only spoke up if I knew I couldn’t be rejected. And hustled my ass off to be seen as enough.
All of these years of staying safe lead to meaningless jobs after jobs… after jobs, staying in relationships that didn’t serve either party for wayyyy to long, endless burnout from desperately trying to feel valued through my accomplishments, accolades, and directly from peoples mouth, and constantly questioning and adapting who I was in order to be liked by everyone.
Not only was I physically and mentally exhausted but I was unfulfilled. I was tired of constantly comparing, constantly aching to be like those who seemed to be so free, authentic, and HAPPY. Tired of feeling like I couldn’t possibly be as confident or as capable as the people I saw pursuing their own big dreams…
I truly believe with my entire body that everything happens for us, in perfect timing. Because that was the moment where I learned just how capable I was and that I was truly ready for something different. I was ready to get to know ME. To start uncovering what I wanted to do with my life. To stop hiding. To stop comparing. To stop letting life happen. To stop making excuses as to why the things I wanted weren’t possible for me.
It was then that I decided to start taking ownership. To freaken figure things out even when I didn’t know the answers, even when things were uncertain. To learn how to create a deeper connection with myself and with those around me. To finally listen to the gut feeling I had deep my soul that always told me I was meant for more. I was going to make it happen… even if I didn’t quite know what “it” was yet. I was on a mission to feel deep fulfillment every.single.day.
Over the last few years, I invested tens of thousands of dollars and thousands of hours in coaches, programs, personal development resources, books, and podcasts because I was determined to know myself at the core, without the masks, without the “shoulds,” and without letting the fears of “what if” hold me back.
I eventually started this business (and quit another cushy 9-5 to go all in, even when I didn’t know the outcome, even with 80k of student loans). I created a deep relationship with uncertainty which allows me to GO FOR IT, to pursue the things that make me happy even if it’s not the “safest” path.
And now, I’ve truly learned what it means to feel fulfilled. I finally feel home. I’ve been able to remove all of the masks and deeply know and understand who I am and what makes me happy. I no longer let fear of judgment mold me into someone I’m not or hold me back from being myself and going after my dreams. I feel confident in my decisions, knowing I am deserving of everything I desire… exactly as I am.
We get one life on this earth, for all we know. And while we are not broken, while we do not need to be fixed…
If this sounds like you, if you are ready to overhaul the relationship you have to yourself, if you are ready to finally know who you are, who you want to be, and how to live your best, most radiant life... I can help you get there.
The life you desire is absolutely possible. Are you ready?
Qualifications:
I am certified as a Coach through Hungry for Happiness, a 10 month in depth Certification Program that includes 400 hours of module/course work, implementation, and client practicum hours. We are trained to become expert coaches in helping our clients move through and change behaviors, beliefs, and patterns that are no longer serving them through emotional healing, self connection, and mindset/belief shifting techniques.